We all have Dark and Light in us and in our lives. We learn and grow from both. While we need boundaries to protect our Self, as we grow stronger we are more and more able to stay present for those who need us.... in their Darkness as well as in the Light. We learn we cannot help everyone.... but we can stay and love them. We learn to not always sacrifice our Self for others. We learn that everyone has Guides that care for them. We learn not to believe that someone is suddenly our friend because they need us, when in the years prior, there was no evidence of friendship. Life, love.... of others and of the Self.... is a balance. True love, in friendship as well, accepts boundaries and limitations. Embraces the journey of Kali which always proceeds a breakthrough. And continues to share in Shakti. If someone rejects you because you say you honestly simply cannot help them at this time...... that is manipulation, not love. If someone comes you proclaiming love or adoration only when they are in a Kali cycle, that is neediness, not love. If someone leaves you... different from saying I cannot help you, but I will stay with you...... when you are in a Kali cycle, that is not love. That is what we call a fair weather friend. Look for the balance that exists, or doesn't exist, in all relationships. Seek balance in the Love you share with others.
